There are many paths to happiness and fulfillment, but the most direct one is simple: allow yourself to express the magnificent spirit of who you are—free from fear of judgment or approval from others.
Often, the mind immediately responds with questions: How can I follow my heart when I have responsibilities—to my job, my family, or others who depend on me?
Pause for a moment. The how is not your responsibility to figure out. That role belongs to the Higher Universal Mind—what many call God—which effortlessly orchestrates the details when your heart is aligned.
Your role is simpler: to feel.
Following your heart requires presence with your emotions, because joy is felt before it is understood. You can begin by reflecting on moments in your life that brought genuine happiness, and by staying present as new experiences unfold. Throughout your day, notice what makes you smile and what causes your energy to contract. These responses are guidance.
Pay attention to what brings warmth, ease, and enthusiasm. These are clues from your heart. Add them gently to your list of desires. There is no rush to complete this list—it grows naturally over time. You may write, paint, speak, or simply feel into what you wish to invite into your life.
Logic has no place here. The rational mind exists to analyze what is, not to determine what can be. Limiting your dreams based on current circumstances—finances, education, or past experiences—only reinforces limitation. Imagination is the doorway to expansion.
As you listen inward, you’ll notice that when a thought aligns with your heart, it feels light, warm, or joyful. When that feeling is absent, it’s a sign to pause rather than push. This is your heart communicating through sensation and emotion, guiding you toward what is right for you.
You do not need external approval to follow your heart. No one else can feel what you feel or know what is right for your path.
Following your heart does not mean disregarding others or causing harm. True alignment is rooted in love, respect, and reverence for life. It never involves imposing your will upon another person, place, or being.
Living from the heart builds self-trust and peace of mind. It allows life to unfold as an adventure rather than a struggle. As you practice this way of living, you will notice that what once felt right may no longer resonate—and that’s natural. We evolve. What served us before may not serve us now.
Learn to follow the present feeling. Inspiration comes and goes, and forcing action out of obligation turns joy into burden. This is where many confuse responsibility with obligation.
Responsibility is the ability to respond to yourself with love in each moment. Feelings—whether joy, sadness, anger, or fatigue—are meant to be acknowledged, not suppressed. When honored, they pass naturally. When ignored, they stagnate and block happiness.
Obligation, on the other hand, is driven by fear—fear of loss, rejection, or disapproval. Acting from obligation often leads to resentment, exhaustion, and disconnection from self. It is not loving, and it does not lead to fulfillment.
When you consistently choose obligation over authenticity, you end up giving more than you receive, leaving little time, energy, or abundance for yourself. True responsibility restores balance by honoring your inner truth.
When you care for yourself with love, the universe responds in kind. This is the deeper meaning behind the phrase “God helps those who help themselves.” Your heart already knows this.
You are a divine expression living within an abundant universe. Gifted with free will and choice, you are meant to create, experience, and enjoy life fully.
And yes—this means you are allowed to dream boldly.
© 2010
Many people find themselves stuck in what I call a R.U.T.—Restrained Under Terror—unable to move forward despite sincere effort. While each rut looks different, they often stem from similar illusions: an unfulfilling relationship, loss, financial strain, health challenges, or work that drains the spirit.
What makes the rut so painful is the feeling that nothing changes, no matter how hard you try. Frustration turns to despair, and eventually the belief forms that life will never improve.
At some point, we all ask deeper questions: Who am I? Why am I here? Why is there so much suffering? These questions arise from both pain and curiosity. We are not only seeking relief—we are seeking understanding.
“When we understand the higher laws that govern life, we gain clarity about the universe and our place within it.” — Santi
Over decades of guiding hundreds of people, I’ve heard the same unspoken cries beneath different circumstances:
Though the details vary, the pattern is the same: focusing on what feels missing, while repeating the same thoughts, actions, and reactions—hoping for a different result.
Being in a rut is like getting a car stuck in the mud.
At first, you press the gas harder, believing effort will solve the problem. Instead, the wheels spin faster and dig deeper. Exhaustion sets in. Eventually, you forget how you got there and begin to believe the world itself is the rut.
Fear takes over. You stop risking movement. You settle into survival, mistaking it for safety—while joy, peace, and possibility remain buried.
The first step out is awareness.
A rut is not created by circumstance alone, but by repeating fear-based habits of thought and reaction. When we insist on the same approach despite no results, we reinforce the very patterns that keep us stuck.
The mind may say, “I’ve tried everything.” But that belief itself becomes the barrier—anchoring you to the past and preventing you from creating a new future.
Each morning presents a choice. Do you awaken already bracing for disappointment, or do you choose to meet the day with intention? Do you focus on the mud—or the path upward?
Fear is learned. It is conditioned through past experiences and reinforced over time. Yet beneath it lives something far greater: your spirit—the part of you that remembers light, truth, and possibility.
That part of you has never stopped reaching upward.
Your experiences may be encoded in your body and cells, but your essence is unlimited. When you stop listening to the fearful conditioning of the lower mind and reconnect with higher truth, transformation becomes possible.
You don’t escape a rut by force—you rise by choice.
Meeting your moment...aka being present can also be seen as another kind of R.U.T.—a Return to Universal Truth. One that leads not into fear, but into clarity, love, health, and abundance.
If you are going to choose a rut, choose the one that leads you out of the mud and into your miracles.
Life changes when you live in the NOW and willingly be aware of your thoughts, emotions and bodily sensations. This is where you can effectively change your attitude—where conscious intention replaces fear, and awareness paired with action replaces habit.
You are not powerless. Support is always available. What is required is self-love—the willingness to stop exhausting yourself by staying stuck, and instead take a step that actually leads somewhere new.
It takes far more energy to remain trapped than it does to begin again.
Now is the moment to choose differently.
Now is the time to get out of your rut.
Imagine how different life might feel if, at the moment of your birth, you had been welcomed with these words:
Beloved one, you are mine. You are whole. You are loved beyond measure.
It is not too late to hear them now.
Each breath is a new beginning. Each moment holds the power to cleanse what was and awaken a deeper truth within you.
You are a radiant expression of the One—Divinity in form. You have never been separate, forgotten, or abandoned. The mental, emotional and physical pain you carry did not arise because you are unworthy, but because you experienced adversity; causing you to temporarily forgot who you are.
From the beginning, consciousness chose experience. The One expressed itself through form so it could know itself more fully. This was not a fall or a mistake—it was an act of love, free will, and curiosity. Yet as consciousness slowed into matter, a veil of forgetfulness formed. With it came the illusion of separation.
This illusion lives not only in thought, but in the body. It becomes encoded as fear, shame, and the belief that love can be lost.
Betrayal and abandonment are not punishments. They are reflections of a deeper misunderstanding: the belief that you were ever separate from love itself.
The wisdom of the soul of you has always known the truth. It speaks through the heart, with gentle intuition inviting the mind to release fear and surrender the struggle to survive. When the ego resists this invitation, pain repeats—not to harm you, but to awaken you.
Unfelt grief becomes anger. Suppressed sorrow turns into control, withdrawal, or self-blame. The body remembers what the mind avoids.
Healing begins when you allow yourself to feel without judgment.
As you stay present with pain—rather than numbing, fixing, or blaming—it begins to release. In that release, clarity emerges. You remember that rejection was never proof of your unworthiness, and abandonment was never evidence of divine punishment.
You were never a lesser child of God/Goddess.
The belief that you were is the root of suffering—and it can be unlearned.
When the illusion of separation dissolves, love returns—not as something you seek from others, but as something you are. You no longer need to demand validation or chase belonging, because you are home within yourself.
Living in love is wholeness. It is an ascended state of consciousness that shows up as your unique Heaven on Earth.
Prosperity is not accumulation—it is freedom from fear.
Peace is not the absence of challenge—it is trust in your own being.
A courageous heart lives in the present moment, aware of breath, grounded in truth, and unafraid of the unknown. It does no harm, because it knows there is no “other” to harm.
You are not learning how to become love.
You are remembering that you already are; by releasing all of that is unbecoming of the magnificence you are.
Healing betrayal and abandonment does not require forgiveness forced too soon, nor forgetting what hurt. It requires releasing the belief that the pain defined you.
Stop abandoning yourself by staying disconnected from your own wisdom. Bring every part of you back into awareness, compassion, and presence.
Come home.
You were never forsaken. Messengers of love have always surrounded you—arriving through insight, guidance, experience, and remembrance.
Choose now to live as the truth you have always been.
When you return to love, imagination becomes creative power. Dreams find form. And the question of how to heal betrayal and abandonment dissolves—because separation was never real.
You are being reborn in this moment.
Welcome home.
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Letting Go of Guilt, Shame, Blame—and Returning to Love
If you want relief from pain, anger, depression, resentment, or the heaviness of the past, forgiveness becomes the doorway. There are many paths to forgiveness. What I’m sharing here are the two most powerful ways I’ve used—personally and with clients—to move from suffering back into love.
Two Levels of Forgiveness
The Mental Choice of Forgiveness
The Somatic Soul Choice of Forgiveness
The Mental Choice of Forgiveness
From the mental body, forgiveness often begins in one of two beliefs:
“Someone did me wrong.”
When we hold another person responsible and keep reliving the offense, it’s like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer.
“I did something wrong.”
When we punish ourselves with guilt and shame, we drink the poison while knowing it will hurt us.
Most people flip between these two—blaming others, then blaming themselves. Either way, the mind becomes trapped, and life stagnates. Non-forgiveness halts growth in the exact moment we decide we are wronged—or unworthy.
Forgiveness (in its simplest form) means:
There are countless ways to forgive and only a few ways to remain stuck. Yet the mind often chooses accusation, blame, and punishment—because it believes that suffering equals protection. Or it states it has forgiven; yet only in the mental statement without going into the body to feel where it resides and hurting you.
But the truth is: Either way non-forgiveness or thinking you forgave is not strength. It is bondage.
The Somatic Soul Choice of Forgiveness
The soul does not experience life through condemnation. The soul already knows:
you were given free will and free choice for the purpose of learning through experience—not for punishment.
From the soul’s perspective, forgiveness is not excusing harm or denying pain. It is recognizing that beneath the mind’s judgment, there is always a higher truth asking to be seen.
The soul does not need to forgive in the way the mind does—because the soul remembers:
there is always a path back to love.
So how do we move from mental limitation into soul freedom?
My Two Core Tools:
Dismiss the story from the mind
Somatic Practice to Release the emotional charge from the body
The mind holds the “truth” it has concluded—often based on fear, perception, and painful fantasy. That mental story generates emotion: anger, resentment, grief, guilt, shame. When the emotions remain trapped, the story repeats—again and again.
Forgiveness begins when we stop debating the story and get present with the body to feel it, embrace the wisdom of the experience to start releasing the charge.
Most people think this is “hard.”
In truth, it takes far more energy to keep replaying pain than it does to release it.
A Practice: The Violet Flame (Transmutation Tool)
Violet is the energy of transmutation—transforming negative thought and emotion into clarity, peace, and love.
Create a simple space where you won’t be interrupted.
I call it a place to play, because the mind resists words like discipline, work, or exercise. Make it easy. A chair near sunlight or even sitting in nature is perfect.
Violet Flame Process
You can do this daily, with the same person, or in the moment when a fresh trigger appears.
My Story: Choosing Forgiveness When I Didn’t Want To
I used this practice for six months during a divorce—when anger and resentment had escalated into hatred. I believed I was being betrayed and abandoned, and I was preparing for war in court.
Then I remembered: I had already chosen peace.
What I was living was fear.
Forgiveness became my path back to transform from fragmentation back to wholeness and my peaceful heaven on earth.
One week before the court date, my estranged husband followed me to my office. He was crying. In that conversation, he took responsibility, asked forgiveness, signed over the deed to our home, and gave the full settlement amount he had withheld. We cancelled the legal battle and chose to move forward in love rather than fear.
That moment showed me something I will never forget:
When you change your inner state, life rearranges itself around the truth you’ve chosen.
The Soul’s Final Truth
From the soul’s highest view, forgiveness reveals something astonishing:
There was never anything to forgive—only a return to remembering and being whole.
We learn through contrast what aligns with love and what does not. Forgiveness is the bridge from fear back into truth.
In light, with love,
Eloryia
Trust Your Inner Voice and Live by Your Highest Authority
Beloved souls, for many eons you have been trying to remember. You have asked again and again: How do I hear my inner voice? How do I trust my intuition?
The real desire beneath those questions is simple:
to live empowered, centered in the heart, guided by your own inner authority—without endlessly revisiting choices through mental gymnastics and self-doubt.
Two Inner Voices: Fear and Love
It may feel like you have many “voices,” but in truth there are two primary tones:
Both can get louder if ignored—but only one will lead you home.
The voice of fear is relentless. It begs, reasons, negotiates, catastrophizes, ruminates and demands guarantees. Even when it receives a simple, loving answer, it rejects it—because it is addicted to “what if” and obsessed with worst-case outcomes.
Fear is rarely satisfied. It keeps questioning, not because the answer is unclear—
but because the answer doesn’t match the outcome it’s trying to control.
The voice of love, on the other hand, is often subtle. It does not push. It does not plead. It simply knows. And when you truly listen, it brings clarity that feels clean, calm, and steady—even if it doesn’t “make sense” to the rational mind.
So the real question becomes:
How do you tell the difference?
The Body is the First Messenger
Your intuition is not only a “thought.” It is a feeling—an embodied knowing.
If you can form the question, the wisdom of the higher self already knows the answer. The question arises so you will pause long enough to receive it.
And your body helps you discern truth quickly:
Your body is your friend. It responds immediately to your thoughts and emotions—often faster than your mind can explain.
When you ignore the body’s guidance long enough, the messenger gets louder. What begins as a whisper becomes repetition. And if you continue to override your knowing, life may escalate until you are finally forced to stop and listen. Physical pain is the loudest messenger and the most difficult to ignore.
Feel It Out, Don’t Figure It Out
Most people don’t struggle because they lack intuition.
They struggle because they refuse to get still enough to feel.
Instead, they analyze, poll friends, chase opinions, and search for guarantees—while their inner knowing quietly waits.
Intuition is rarely a booming voice from the sky. Most often it arrives as:
Then you can ask for confirmation—and pay attention to the signs.
Signs can arrive through anything: books, songs, poems, animals, conversations, nature, even television. Wherever your attention goes, Spirit can drop a message right in front of you.
A Simple Somatic Practice
If you’re pacing, obsessing, unable to sleep, overdoing “have-to” activity, or numbing out—you’re likely listening to fear. Stillness restores your ability to hear love.
Your Third Eye and Inner Sight
Outer sight is often fooled by appearances. Inner sight is more reliable.
A simple way to practice is to close your physical eyes, bring awareness to the third-eye space, ask your question, and notice what arises—brightness, clarity, upliftment, or dullness, heaviness, hesitation.
But always return to the key: your feelings do not lie.
Even If You Re-Choose, You’re Not Wrong
Sometimes a choice stops fitting. That doesn’t mean you failed. It means you evolved. You can always re-choose.
Fear convinces you there is one “right” choice and that making the “wrong” one will ruin your life. That belief alone keeps you trapped.
Intuition is not a test. It is a relationship—with your own inner truth.
SHUT UP—GOD’S TALKING
Years ago, I went to a trusted friend for advice. I had already heard the same answer from several people, and I still resisted. I didn’t want the truth—I wanted a guarantee.
Finally, he said:
“You already know the answer. You just don’t want to accept it.”
Then he asked:
“What are you waiting for to trust what you already feel?”
I nervously joked, “Maybe I’m waiting for a booming voice from the sky.”
He paused, then said loudly:
“I’m on the 33rd floor of a building in Manhattan. Is that high enough for you? Trust what you feel.”
That was the day I remembered:
I wasn’t lacking guidance.
I was refusing to listen.
If You Want Your Prayers Answered…
If you feel stuck, abandoned, in pain, in lack, or wondering why your dreams aren’t manifesting—often it’s not because you aren’t receiving guidance.
It’s because you’re too busy talking, thinking, worrying, and seeking outside yourself to recognize what’s already being given.
So be still.
Feel.
Listen.
And follow the voice of love—whether it makes sense or not.
Because when you do, your life becomes clearer…
and better…
forever.
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I spent much of my life seeing auras without realizing that what I was observing was unique. Until my early twenties, I simply assumed everyone perceived the world the same way I did—seeing the subtle fields of light surrounding all living things. Discovering that this was not a shared experience came as a genuine surprise.
The truth is, the ability to perceive and access profound knowing exists within everyone. The aura is not merely something to be seen—it is the energetic field through which awareness, intuition, and understanding flow. Your aura is the divine expression of your being, connecting you directly to all that is—often called God, Source, or the One Mind. Within this field exists the capacity to receive, transmit, and access all knowledge.
The aura is the electromagnetic field that radiates from and surrounds the physical body. It reflects every thought you entertain, every emotion you feel, and every experience you have lived. It reveals whether you are reacting from fear or responding from love, and it holds the energetic imprint of both your past and your present. Even future experiences—those not yet manifested—are visible within the aura, shaped by what you are currently thinking and feeling.
The aura does not judge. It simply receives. Thoughts pass through the auric field and are then processed by the reasoning mind. It is here—within the intellect—that limitation often occurs. Conditioned beliefs and survival-based fear can restrict the free flow of insight, generating emotional charges that become stored within the body’s cellular memory. When these patterns repeat unchecked, life itself appears unchanged.
Yet within the aura also exists the solution.
The same energetic field that reveals challenge also holds the guidance, techniques, and modalities best suited to restore balance, healing, and clarity. When fear-based thought patterns and suppressed emotional charges are released, the cycle of limitation dissolves. Life begins to flow again—present, open, and expansive.
Most individuals unknowingly live within fear-based conditioning, which manifests as lack—of health, love, peace, or prosperity. When thought is filtered through past experiences and emotion is constrained, the present and future mirror those limitations. But when awareness shifts from fear to love, unlimited potential becomes accessible.
I have found the aura to be one of the most comprehensive tools of insight available. Through aura portraits and paintings, I receive information expressed through color, light, shape, and form—regardless of physical distance. With decades of experience, I translate this information into practical understanding, helping you recognize what is supporting your life and what is ready to be healed.
The aura reveals both the challenge and the path forward.
When you look within—rather than outside yourself—you discover who you are, why you are here, and what has truly been guiding your life. Your aura is your inner world expressed outward. With awareness and practice, you can learn to sense and interpret it for yourself, unlocking clarity, self-trust, and conscious direction.
Through understanding your aura, you are not only seen—you remember yourself.
You are a living rainbow—much like the non-physical messengers and spiritual guides that surround and support you. The colors within your aura are the visible expression of electromagnetic frequencies emanating from your body. These colors are not static; they continually shift and change, reflecting your thoughts, emotions, actions, and levels of awareness.
To the finely tuned intuitive eye—and even the highly trained physical eye—the aura reveals information about your present state, past experiences, and the direction your life is moving toward. Each color carries meaning, and how it appears—its brightness, clarity, placement, and interaction with other colors—offers insight unique to you.
This article may be used as a general reference guide to understand individual aura colors and common color combinations. However, it is important to remember that aura colors always speak in context. A color may express both supportive and challenging qualities, offering awareness of what is working well and what may be ready for healing or transformation.
Every color in the aura is an invitation—to continue healthy patterns or to gently address behaviors, emotions, or beliefs that no longer serve your well-being or growth.
Red is associated with the Root Chakra and life-force energy. When clear and vibrant, it reflects passion, grounding, vitality, and enthusiasm for life. You are active, energized, and restored by your joyful engagement with the world.
When red appears muddy or dense, it may indicate suppressed anger or unresolved emotional experiences—whether from the past or present. The amount and placement of red reveal whether this energy is being expressed and healed consciously, or resisted, which can create recurring anger-based experiences.
Orange corresponds to the Sacral (Navel) Chakra and represents inspiration and creative flow. A strong orange presence indicates recent inspiration—an inner call to express, create, or act in alignment with your heart’s desire.
When orange appears muted or crossed by other colors, it suggests inspiration is being ignored or overridden by doubt, distraction, or fear.
Yellow is the color of joy and the Solar Plexus Chakra. It reflects confidence, self-trust, and personal power. A soft, creamy yellow indicates peace and inner stability, while a bright, radiant yellow expresses happiness, optimism, and warmth—like standing in sunlight.
Yellow also relates to the mental body. When combined with green—especially when yellow overlays green—it often indicates mental interference with emotional or physical healing. While yellow-green can represent healing in progress, excessive mental analysis may block ease and natural flow.
Green is the color of the Heart Chakra and healing. A vibrant emerald green suggests immediate healing opportunities and often indicates a natural healer. It may also signal the presence of Archangel Raphael, associated with healing and the elemental realms.
The placement of green reveals whether healing is occurring on a mental, emotional, physical, or spiritual level.
Blue corresponds to the Throat Chakra and communication. Clear shades of blue—especially cobalt—indicate strong communication abilities and self-expression.
When blue appears dull or obstructed, it may suggest difficulty speaking one’s truth or suppressed expression. Blue can also reflect the presence—or absence—of a masculine role model and how that influence shaped communication patterns.
Pink represents self-love and is often underrepresented in aura interpretations. Many struggle with its absence, as it reflects beliefs about worthiness and deserving love.
When pink appears, it highlights where self-love is being restored—or where healing is needed to release beliefs of being less than or undeserving.
Indigo relates to the Third Eye Chakra and intuitive awareness. It is formed by the blending of red and blue—passion and truth.
In its positive expression, indigo reflects commitment to integrity, justice, and balance. Those with strong indigo energy often feel driven to uphold truth in their own lives and in the world. In its negative expression, it signals a need to reconnect passion with truth and life-force energy.
Violet is associated with the Crown Chakra and the Violet Flame of transformation, often linked with Saint Germain. In its positive form, violet reflects mastery in transmuting challenge into wisdom.
When violet appears with heaviness, it may indicate deeply embedded trauma that has yet to be addressed. When violet appears alongside gold or silver, it signifies advanced alchemical awareness—the ability to consciously transform energy.
Subtler colors such as turquoise, magenta, silver, and gold have become more visible in recent decades. These hues represent higher-frequency awareness and expanded consciousness, often appearing alongside the full spectrum of the rainbow.
You may carry one or more of these colors prominently, signaling a highly evolved energetic field.
Your aura reveals both challenge and solution. It offers insight into who you are, what you are healing, and where your greatest potential lies.
Through intuitive aura portraits and readings, I receive information expressed through color, light, shape, and form—regardless of physical distance. With years of experience, I translate this information into practical understanding so you can consciously realign with your authentic self and transform your life with clarity and confidence.
© 2009
I spent much of my life seeing auras without realizing that what I was observing was uncommon. Until my early twenties, I assumed everyone perceived the subtle fields of light surrounding all living things just as I did. Discovering otherwise came as a surprise.
The truth is, the ability to sense and access deep knowing exists within everyone. The aura is not merely something to be seen—it is the energetic field through which awareness, intuition, and understanding flow. Your aura is the divine expression of your being, connecting you directly to all that is—often referred to as God, Source, or the One Mind.
The aura is the electromagnetic field radiating from and around the physical body. It reflects your thoughts, emotions, and experiences, revealing whether you are reacting from fear or responding from love. Within this field are not only past and present influences, but also the energetic blueprint of future experiences—shaped by what you are currently thinking and feeling.
The aura also holds solutions. Within its field exist the insights, techniques, and modalities best suited to support healing, alignment, and the realization of your dreams.
Thought moves through the aura before becoming conscious awareness. The aura receives thought without judgment. It is when thought reaches the reasoning mind that limitation often appears—filtered through prior experiences and survival-based beliefs. These patterns become stored within cellular memory and repeated, shaping life until awareness opens beyond judgment.
Seeing auras is not as difficult as many believe. While some are born with the ability to physically see auras, everyone can learn to sense them through awareness, practice, and trust.
When I speak of “seeing” auras, I do not always mean physical sight. Often, sensing, feeling, or knowing is the true perception. With years of intuitive and artistic practice, I have learned to trust this inner sense completely. At times of deep peace and presence, physical sight naturally follows.
Trust in yourself is the most important element. Without trust, perception remains blocked.
With practice, what begins as inner sensing may eventually expand into physical perception. This unfolds naturally, without force.
Seeing auras is not about effort—it is about presence, trust, and allowing awareness to open. As judgment softens, perception expands. Your aura is already speaking. Learning to sense it is simply remembering how to listen.
© Eloryia RA, 2000